Jedan od razloga zbog kojih vrlo često ne vidimo, nazivamo li to “zlo”, pokvarenost srca ili psihopatsko ponašanje – vjerovatno je taj što nam je teško povjerovati da takvi ljudi zaista postoje!Kako se postaje pokvaren..,Kao što se vidi iz samog pridjeva, pokvaren se postaje. To je pridjev od glagola pokvariti. Znači da je nešto ili neko moralo da pokvari onoga tko je takav, da se nije takav rodio niti je to stekao genetski. Čak tu osobinu nije stekao ni vaspitanjem. Pokvaren se postaje iz straha.

Strah je ključni termin koji nas vodi do psihologije pokvarenih ljudi. Isto kao što je pokvarenost osobina koja se odnosi na sve moguće potencijalne mane ljudskog ponašanja i razmišljanja, tako se sve one rađaju iz najrazličitijih, odnosno svih vrsta strahova. Dominantan je strah od materijalne propasti, od gubitka sredstava za život i preživljavanje, zatim strah od gubitka teritorije (tako dolazi do ratova koje takođje vode pokvarenjaci), strah od gubljenja društvenog položaja, strah od smrti i, što je možda najvažnije, strah od drugih ljudi.Normalno je da strah od ljudi postoji zato što oni predstavljaju najveći problem uplašenima da će im ugroziti egzistenciju. Kod pojedinih pokvarenjaka ovaj strah je toliko izražen da se boje da komuniciraju oko sasvim običnih stvari s neznancima. Na primjer, strah ih je da porazgovaraju sa seljakom na pijaci, boje se da pitaju nekoga da se u nepoznatoj sredini ne izgube, neki idu toliko daleko da ne mogu čak ni da izvade račun u banci jer nemaju hrabrosti da stupe u kontakt sa šalterskom službenicom ili službenikom, pogotovo zato što su najčešće u uniformama. A uniforme dodatno ulivaju strah kod pokvarenjaka jer one za njih predstavljaju autoritet, odnosno vlast – strah i trepet! To je toliki strah da su u stanju da se ukamene ako im policajac priđe na ulici samo da bi ih legitimirao. Poznajem popriličan broj pokvarenjaka koji tako reaguju na obične ulične kerove, kako ih nazivaju u njihovom odsustvu.Pokvarenjak se ne postaje ni vaspitanjem. Moguće su greške u vaspitanju ukoliko roditelji previše oko svega povlađuju i ugađaju, ali ovakvo ponašanje roditelja nesrazmerno je veće u odnosu na broj pokvarenjaka. Da bi ovo ugađanje leglo na plodno tlo, potreban je određen karakter, struktura ličnosti, da bi se postalo pokvarenjak, ali taj karakter je sam po sebi dovoljan da nikakvo vaspitanje ili promjena u načinu vaspitanja jednog pokvarenjaka neće sprječiti da se kroz život kreće laktajući se i gazeći po leševima.Ipak, ovo je u kontradikciji s početnom tvrdnjom da se pokvaren postaje, a ne da je urođena osobina. Na ovo, priznajem, nemam precizan odgovor, ali psihologija vjerovatno ima. Pokvaren se postaje u momentu oblikovanja karaktera, što je moguće da se događa još u prenatalnom periodu.

Pokvarenjaci i njihovo ponašanje!

O ovome je ponešto već rečeno. Pokvarenjaci su plašljivi ljudi i zbog toga će se neznanaca najčešće kloniti. Suprotno tome, kad namirišu žrtvu, a žrtve su po pravilu obični ljudi koji ne očekuju pokvarenjake u blizini, pretvoriće se u najbolje prijatelje. Tako će makar nazivati svoje žrtve koje su po pravilu dobro materijalno obezbjeđene. Novac, naime, jako dobro rastjeruje sve strahove, strah od egzistencijalne propasti, strah od nepoznatih, ulijeva povjerenje kod uniformiranih ljudi i kod onih koji za njih znače strah i trepet – za vlast!Stoga se svakom može dogoditi da mu najveći pokvarenjak postane najbolji prijatelj, pa čak i partner. Gotovo da nema čovjeka koji nije to iskusio. Poslije toga slijedi razočaranje, ali obično dolazi prekasno. Pokvarenjak napušta prijatelja ili partnera čim osjeti da materijalna sigurnost nestaje baš kao što pacovi prvi napuštaju brod koji tone. A događa se i da mora da pokrade prijatelja da bi se na nekom drugom mjestu materijalno pokrio. I kroz ovo smo skoro svi prošli.

Pokvarenjaci zbog toga uvijek biraju sigurna zanimanja kao što je odvjetnici, medicina, politika, biznis ili, rijeđe, kriminal. Za kriminal se odlučuju samo rijetki pokvarenjaci jer, uprkos tome što donosi laku materijalnu sigurnost, on nosi previše rizika. Zato je među običnim lopovima od pobrojanih zanimanja najmanji broj pokvarenjaka. Lopov se uglavnom postaje iz nužde i vrlo često među njima ima i vrlo visokomoralnih ljudi. Kod ostalih pobrojanih struka, ovaj postotak je neuporedivo manji.

Pokvarenjaci su zbog straha od nepoznatih ljudi uglavnom ćutljivi i neprimjetni kad se nađu među njima.

Zamislimo tipičnog pokvarenjaka u kafani, kafiću ili restoranu. Konobari su, primjera radi, nepoznati ljudi. Postoje dvije moguće reakcije pokvarenjaka na njih (a sjetimo se da i oni nose uniforme). Pokvarenjaci će prema njima biti ili previše snebivljivi ili će se braniti pretjeranim osmjehivanjem i primjetno nategnutim glupiranjem, a često i lupetanjem gluposti od kojih ostalima za stolom često može da bude vrlo neprijatno. U svakom slučaju, nikad pred neznancima neće biti opušteni i smireni. Isto važi i za telefonske razogovore s neznancima. Ili pretjerana zvaničnost, zbunjenost, uplašenost i ponovo bujica izvinjavanja i zahvaljivanja bez ikakvog razloga iz čista mira, ometano disanje i zamuckivanje uvijek će pratiti telefonski razgovor pokvarenjaka s nepoznatom osobom s druge strane veze. Zbog toga pokvarenjaci obično izbjegavaju da se javljaju na telefon. Naravno, ima i onih pokvarenjaka sa drugog ekstremnog pola – onih koji će se braniti pretjeranom pričljivošću i nepotrebnim i glupim humorom, baš kao i u slučaju s konobarom.Kako se riješiti pokvarenjaka

Ovo će ići malo teže, jer ako pokvarenjak ne ode sam a vi ga tjerate od sebe, to za njega predstavlja pravu propast i čitav raspad sistema i spreman je na sve da ga ne napustite. Upoznala sam pokvarenjake koji su spremni na toliko poniženje kakvo se inače može sresti samo u literaturi i filmu. Točnije, u sapunicama. Sve će učiniti da ga ne ostavite, opet iz straha od ostavljanja, a naročito zbog povrijeđene sujete koja je veoma bitna za funkcioniranje u svijetu u kom vlada strah.

Ipak, problem nije nerješiv. Budući da je izvorište svakog pokvarenjaka strah, dovoljno ga je pošteno zastrašiti i on će se, iako prilično skrušeno, sam povući. I neće se više nikad javiti. Govoriće o vama najveće gadarije čitavog života, to se podrazumjeva, ali makar ga više nećete imati u svom bližem okruženju. U nekom daljem će zauvijek ostati, ali to je cijena koju morate da platite zato što ga na vrijeme niste pročitali. Kaže Pavle Ćosić.

Stoga, poruka svim običnim ljudima – prepoznajte hulju na vrijeme. Oni će se svejedno snaći i bez vas, izgradiće društvo po svojoj mjeri, čak saplitati jedni druge na tom poslu, ali ne toliko da jedne druge ometu u zajedničkoj namjeri, a to je da nemoral pobjedi. Uostalom, vrana vrani oči ne vadi.One of the reasons why we very often do not see, whether we call it "evil", the corruption of the heart or psychopathic behavior - is probably because it is difficult for us to believe that such people really exist! adjective, becomes rotten. It is an adjective from the verb to spoil. It means that something or someone had to corrupt the one who is like that, that he was not born like that nor did he acquire it genetically. He didn't even acquire that trait through upbringing. He becomes corrupt out of fear.

Fear is the key term that leads us to the psychology of corrupt people. Just as the corruption of traits refers to all possible potential flaws in human behavior and thinking, so they all arise from the most diverse, that is, all kinds of fears. Dominant is the fear of material ruin, of the loss of means of living and survival, followed by the fear of losing the territory (this is how wars are also waged by corrupt people), the fear of losing one's social position, the fear of death and, perhaps most importantly, the fear of others people. It is normal that fear of people exists because they represent the biggest problem for those who are afraid that they will threaten their existence. In some corrupt people, this fear is so pronounced that they are afraid to communicate about completely ordinary things with strangers. For example, they are afraid to talk to a farmer at the market, they are afraid to ask someone lest they get lost in an unknown environment, some go so far as to not even be able to withdraw a bank account because they do not have the courage to get in touch with the counter clerk. or an official, especially since they are usually in uniform. And uniforms additionally instill fear in corrupt people because for them they represent authority, i.e. power - fear and trembling! It is such a fear that they are able to turn to stone if a policeman approaches them on the street just to identify them. I know quite a number of crooks who react that way to ordinary street criminals, as they are called in their absence. Mistakes in upbringing are possible if parents indulge and please too much in everything, but this behavior of parents is disproportionately greater in relation to the number of spoiled children. In order for this indulgence to fall on fertile ground, a certain character, a personality structure, is needed to become a pervert, but that character is sufficient in itself that no amount of education or change in the way of bringing up a pervert will prevent him from moving through life by bending over backwards. and trampling on corpses. However, this contradicts the initial claim that corruption is made rather than an inborn trait. I admit, I don't have a precise answer to this, but psychology probably does. It becomes corrupt at the moment of character formation, which may happen even in the prenatal period.

Crooks and their behavior!

Something has already been said about this. Rogues are timid people and because of this they will usually stay away from strangers. On the contrary, when they smell a victim, and the victims are usually ordinary people who do not expect crooks around, they will turn into best friends. At least that's what they will call their victims who, as a rule, are financially well off. Namely, money dispels all fears very well, fear of existential ruin, fear of the unknown, instills confidence in uniformed people and those who mean fear and trembling to them - for the government!Therefore, it can happen to anyone that the biggest crook becomes their best friend and even partner. There is hardly a person who has not experienced it. Disappointment follows, but it usually comes too late. A corrupt person abandons a friend or partner as soon as they sense material security disappearing just as rats are the first to abandon a sinking ship. And it also happens that he has to steal from a friend in order to cover himself materially in another place. And almost all of us have been through this.

Because of this, crooks always choose safe professions such as lawyers, medicine, politics, business or, more rarely, crime. Only rare crooks choose crime because, despite the fact that it brings easy material security, it carries too many risks. That is why among ordinary thieves, the number of crooks is the smallest among the listed professions. Thieves are mostly made out of necessity, and very often there are very high moral people among them. In the other professions listed, this percentage is incomparably lower.

Due to the fear of unknown people, corrupt people are mostly silent and inconspicuous when they find themselves among them.

Let's imagine a typical crook in a bar, cafe or restaurant. Waiters, for example, are unknown people. There are two possible reactions of the crooks to them (and let's remember that they also wear uniforms). The crooks will either be too shy towards them or they will defend themselves by excessive smiling and noticeably strained babbling, and often by babbling nonsense, which can often make the others at the table very uncomfortable. In any case, they will never be relaxed and calm in front of strangers. The same applies to telephone conversations with strangers. Or excessive formality, confusion, fear and again a flood of apologies and thanks for no reason out of sheer calmness, disturbed breathing and stuttering will always accompany the phone conversation of a corrupt person with an unknown person on the other end of the line. This is why crooks usually avoid answering the phone. Of course, there are those crooks from the other extreme - those who will defend themselves with excessive talkativeness and unnecessary and stupid humor, just like in the case with the waiter. How to get rid of crooks

This will be a little more difficult, because if the crook doesn't go away on his own and you push him away, it represents a real downfall for him and the entire system collapse, and he's ready to do anything to keep you from leaving him. I have met crooks who are ready for such humiliation as can normally only be found in literature and film. More precisely, in soap operas. He will do everything not to leave him, again out of fear of leaving him, and especially because of his wounded vanity, which is very important for functioning in a world ruled by fear.

However, the problem is not insoluble. Since fear is the source of every evildoer, it is enough to frighten him fairly and he will, albeit rather contritely, retire on his own. And he will never call again. They will talk about you the biggest scumbags of their entire lives, that goes without saying, but at least you won't have him in your immediate environment anymore. It will remain in someone else forever, but that's the price you have to pay because you didn't read it in time. Pavle Ćosić says.

Therefore, a message to all ordinary people - recognize the scoundrel in time. They will still manage without you, they will build a society according to their own standards, they will even trip each other up in that work, but not so much that they hinder each other in their common intention, which is for immorality to win. After all, a crow does not pry its eyes out.MOJA KOLUMNA-ISPIT SAVJESTI-ljudska POKVARENOST-ILI SOTONSKI .,SMRAD!!LADISLAV&Z-TEOLOG-MUSISICEN!MY COLUMN-EXAMINATION OF CONSCIENCE-human CORRUPTION-OR SATANIC .,STENCH!!LADISLAV&Z-THEOLOGIST-MUSICIAN!